It's so much easier to lie than to tell the truth sometimes. It's almost as if we tell a lie just to please others, even if it isn't true it makes everything ok just saying it. Well let me tell you something, it does NOT make everything ok. Granted, it will for a short amount of time, but it's wrong.

My reading list just keeps getting longer and longer!

I think the man sitting in the seat in front of me could, very possibly, be my lecturer. I don't know for sure because I can only see the back of his head and half his face in the window reflection. I could even shout or just say his name to see if he turns his head, but I don't know him well enough really - meaning I had one class with him....which I may have then dropped.

Rainbow I saw on the way home!

I've always been quite private about my views, well I think I have anyway! I've adopted a very 'European' attitude one could say, a 'you believe what you want and I'll believe what I want' sort, the one where we can talk about pretty much anything but personal beliefs and religion.

Recently however, through my studies, I've come to converse more on topics which I think are interesting and important -  which is very good, because its opened up so many doors for me. I've started to actually voice my opinion where as normally I just sit and watch and think 'fair enough if that's what you think!'

For me to speak out it's like a post-structuralist inventing a theory and publishing it, because, like a post-structuralist, I'd have to stress these are just my own thoughts and not a really a theory. In fact, I'm a firm believer in having your own opinions and the right to choice, which is probably why I prefer to just listen and form my own opinions, because like they say in Bride and Prejudice (2004)


In the same way, I've come to learn that it's OK to have opinions, but we can't impose them on others. Having opinions is healthy and listening to other views and ideas can help to broaden our minds, and sometimes even reinforce the views we already have. It's good to talk.

But remember, talking and listening go hand in hand, so if you aren't prepared to listen, its probably not worth talking. If you stop listening to others, eventually others will stop listening to you!

So, I've decided, as you may have noticed from a few posts,  to broaden my horizons and write about different issues. I will still write stories and recall events, but now and then I may do something a little different.

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P.S. I've also added a 'Contact Me' page because I'd love to hear from you! Feel free to get in touch. :)  

There's this tree I walk past on the way to seminars and it's just extraordinary, it's a tree with its roots coming through the wall. It's as if the tree decided one day: 'hold on a minute, this is my space' and outgrew the wall - simple as. But it's never that simple is it? The wall must have been built around the tree for it to grow and occupy a space that large, or maybe the tree was smaller but continued to grow into the wall taking a few bricks off at a time, who knows!

This is the tree I was taking about. Can you see bricks behind some of the roots!